Posts Tagged ‘Relationships’

591/1,825: Moments of Processing

It was recovery day from a full celebrated 27th birthday… And, I’m certainly sufficiently tired, yet it’s not even midnight. I was supposed to begin my laser hair removal treatment – sur la lower back n’ buttocks – but turns out, can’t do it on antibiotics. I also thought of Michael today – and our relationship – and where it’s gone. At one point, I wanted to write a letter… but then I ate pizza & watched Law & Order instead on 36545.matheggem.com.


P.S. Catch the movie here, worth watching, Exterminators: www.flixster.com/movie/exterminators

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589/1,825: Pale Face Turn-a-round

I made it out of bed today! Mostly, because I had a meeting that would not have been cancelable… Is that a word? Well, I also had a new recruit come into the office today and needed to get him setup on some things. Otherwise, trust me, I would have been sleepin’ like I did the day before. Said and done, all it took was some of my favorite soup, Tomato Basil with Rice, and some Sourdough bread, to change my pale face to a sustainable 5 o’clock shadow. But by the time 8hrs of semi-productivity hit, the construction workers clocked in & started pounding on my forehead. So off to bed I am, on 36545.matheggem.com — and tomorrow, I shall awake a 27 year old man!

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588/1,825: Sick Man Speakeeezzz

It’s not always easy to talk about things that you are uncertain about. Sometimes, instead, you focus on the other aspects of your life – the great things that happened at work, or the partying you did over the weekend, etc. But, eventually, in an attempt to be open and transparent you either, a, start talkin’ or ,b, are called out on it and start talkin’… either way, it’s all bound to come out on 36545.matheggem.com.

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585/1,825: The 7+ Piece Update

Get all caught up on life: 1. We broke up 2. I went out 3. I made out with two guys 4. I hung out with strangers 5. A kid let loose at the dinner at 5am 6. I’m getting laser hair removal on my lower-back & buttocks and 7. There are too many dogs in the hood on 36545.matheggem.com.

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582/1,825: Ring, Ring, Improv Soup

Speaking of soup, that’s what I had for dinner… but only because I can’t chew on a fat ol’ hamburger. Watch and find out why on 36545.matheggem.com.

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575/1,825: Heeellllp Me!

A moment of honesty in the world of being an arts supporter and leader in nonprofits and small business. Short of it, it ain’t easy on 36545.matheggem.com so extend a helping hand.

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568/1,825: Perseverance

It’s another metaphor day on 568, plus my friend from college sticks with it through thick n’ thin on 36545.matheggem.com.

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547/1,825: Intrapersonal Relations

An impromptu date night with my bunnies on 36545.matheggem.com.

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462/1,825: A Layer of Truth

It’s a complex chess game in the day and life of Mr. Heggem. Watch as we unravel the power dynamics that are being played and beg to ask ourselves the question: are we capable of asking for what we deserve at 36545.matheggem.com?

P.S. Why do I keep messing up the date?

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436/1,825: Makin’er Happ’n at Queer Art Impact

It take a lot to build something from scratch. When creating an organization, especially in the arts, it takes a whole lot of energy and dedication to build the system that will sustain the momentum. I appreciate all who have purchase their Gay Wars tickets already and have a plan on reaching out to people to ask for clear support. What’s the lesson here: Build relationships and don’t be afraid to ask for support. But remember, it’s all about honesty, integrity and sharing from the heart… connect to people and make it personal. That’s how communities are built, projects are sustainable, and where the hard work pays off on Day 436 at 36545.matheggem.com

P.S. If you’re in NYC, please consider coming to the 2nd Annual Queer Art Impact Gay Wars festival, The Queer Ecology, May 15th – 21st, 2011. If you’re not, please consider making a donation at www.queerai.com to support this initiative.

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